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Question:
This will be our first experience and we're
apprehensive! What should we expect?
No matter how long
experienced people have been doing this, (and for some of us, it has been
many years), we all had a first time. The fact that you're apprehensive
tells us that you're just like the rest of us.
We remember how uncomfortable it was to think about, before actually
experiencing clothes-free recreation. We know that it takes courage and
trust to try nudism.
Yes, it takes trust. Going without clothes among others allows us to bare
everything but our souls. That takes trust in the people who are helping
us get started.
Women who are experienced nudists remember worrying that people might
stare, or ogle, or compare, or come on to them. Some were afraid it would
be a beauty contest and they'd be the only one without a "perfect" body
(they're relieved to learn that we're really all pretty much the same).
Men remember being afraid that they'd get an erection. Once in a while, no
matter how much we assure people that it's not a sexual experience,
there's a man who thinks that HE has so much more testosterone than
everyone else, it'll be sexual for him.
What all of us have learned, is that the first ten or fifteen minutes, we
are so intimidated that our equipment doesn't work the way we thought it
would . . . and most experienced nudists of both sexes will say that the
next thing that happens, is that you'll FORGET you're naked! Hard to
believe, isn't it? I repeat, almost ALL of us found it to be true, and you
probably will too.
Man and woman sitting by a stream © Charles Myers. Used with permission.
One of our members tells about his first visit to a "landed" nudist park.
He fell asleep on his blanket, on the grass between the tennis courts and
the swimming pool. Upon awakening, he lay with his eyes closed, feeling
the warm sunshine and the gentle breeze, listening to the sounds around
him, the tennis balls volleying on one side, and the splashes,
conversation and squeals from kids down around the pool.
He thought, "My God, I really am lying here naked". Then he opened his
eyes and looked around a little, and thought, "And so is everybody else."
Then, "And nobody seems to notice." And then, "AND IT REALLY DOESN'T
MATTER!"
You'll quickly come to the realization that nobody who has been doing this
for a while pays attention to you. Unless you're dressed, of course, then
you'd stick out like a sore thumb. As you might imagine, a person who is
clothed differently from the rest of us is the one who feels most
uncomfortable.
We also know from experience that the easiest way to ease into this is to
get your clothes off as quickly as you can, as if you've been doing it all
your life. It is far easier to jump right in, than to drag out the
process. It's like jumping into a pool of water. Just do it, and get it
over with. Very soon, you'll start to realize that "This isn't so bad, in
fact they were right, it feels pretty darn good!"
Bare Buns has a free orientation, presented at the beginning of our Rec
Center parties, for people who are attending for their first time. It's
packed with information, sensitively presented, and with a touch of humor
to help you relax. It is designed to help make your first-time nudist
experience as comfortable as we can possibly make it. In addition, we host
a "Meet & Greet" before each Rec Center party at a nearby restaurant.
Many people like being able to meet a small group of our members over a
bite to eat, in a neutral, clothed environment. Then when they arrive at
the Rec Center, they feel like they at least know a few of the people
there. Participation in the Meet & Greet is optional.
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